so I got on your blog tonight, read the last few posts and potesd my own comments that I am so "totally confused"then...I went to read Whacko Jonathon's blog and by the time I came back to your blog (like only 3 minutes later) you had deleted his post!Carrie Dear...your readers can't follow what you are saying and responding to if you are constantly controlling and censoring everything! Let go a little you'll get the best in then end!